tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5194832525607689004.post6684897260405865738..comments2023-09-08T11:28:10.066+05:30Comments on To Blog, With Love: Ask . Be vulnerable .Shttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01104193753884264542noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5194832525607689004.post-5582478300115359302013-08-10T01:14:51.119+05:302013-08-10T01:14:51.119+05:30From asking the bus conductor for change to asking...From asking the bus conductor for change to asking a girl out, it's mostly :<br /><br />https://si0.twimg.com/profile_images/2180888658/gtfo-meme-rage-face.pngSushmithttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11404201238449594829noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5194832525607689004.post-56722245735474736722013-08-06T06:23:32.452+05:302013-08-06T06:23:32.452+05:30A thought provoking post indeed.
As babies we cr...A thought provoking post indeed. <br /><br />As babies we cry when we need something(and we mostly likely get what we need & we are not bothered about the reactions or responses) , As children we ask our parents for whatever we need(Sometimes we get and sometimes we don't & at the same time we start observing the reactions and responses). And as we grow older we become wise and start thinking about whether it is right or not to ask. Whether what will the opposite person think ?, how will he react? ,What if he doesn't like the way I asked etc etc and hence most of the times we decide against asking. (<i>Our inner self becomes so complicated even for simple things as we grow old. May be the side effects of social living :)...</i>)<br /><br />If we think deeply about it , there is definitely a point here. We ask only when we think that the other person can understand it perfectly. Only when we think that the other person will not mind our asking even if he/she doesn't like it. In short we tend to ask only the person with whom we are comfortable with and whom we think can understand us perfectly. (some people never think all these things and simply ask openly irrespective of all the ifs , buts and consequences.)<br /><br />P.S. ~ Your last para made me smile real wide. You would not ASK even if you were hungry that too at HOME ?? <i>.......It's ok, nothing will happen to you if you take another slice or two. Oh come on, have it. :P</i><br /><br />P.P.S. ~ And for not so less common people the thing which bothers is "What if I had not asked?"Strangerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07021272809360388553noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5194832525607689004.post-67999074000277716442013-08-05T19:24:13.296+05:302013-08-05T19:24:13.296+05:30If only not expecting came that easy. How can you ...If only not expecting came that easy. How can you ask and not expect to get it? How can it go hand in hand? You ask coz you want / need it, right?Shttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01104193753884264542noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5194832525607689004.post-50819320190727521662013-08-05T17:50:40.113+05:302013-08-05T17:50:40.113+05:30Something which works for me ...ask without any ex...Something which works for me ...ask without any expectation. You are more likely to get what you want and even if you don't it's not gonna hurt. If you don't take the whole asking business too seriously, you're more likely to get what you want and much much less likely to get hurt.:) Vaga Bondhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05486385939889213761noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5194832525607689004.post-41929088316800975912013-08-05T09:25:11.641+05:302013-08-05T09:25:11.641+05:30So it is 50-50 % chances right? And if I don't...So it is 50-50 % chances right? And if I don't ask or hope, it will be 100% NO. There is never a problem dealing with the happiness, it is the sorrow which sucks!<br /><br />P.S: That's one of my favourite poems! :) I think I have blogged about it too.Shttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01104193753884264542noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5194832525607689004.post-72550399472045272682013-08-05T04:35:02.436+05:302013-08-05T04:35:02.436+05:30It is never a problem to ask, for big things or sm...It is never a problem to ask, for big things or small things, as long as you can deal with the happiness that comes when what you asked for is given to you, and deal with the sorrow that comes when it is not. If you can deal with both... "Yours is the Earth and everything that's in it, And—which is more—you'll be a Man, my son" :)Merlinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05373549268388520052noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5194832525607689004.post-37746642821767188432013-08-04T19:43:04.804+05:302013-08-04T19:43:04.804+05:30@ Anonymous:
I understand what you mean by regret...@ Anonymous:<br /><br />I understand what you mean by regret after asking. But I feel, regretting or not regretting is a choice you make. If you don't ask, you will regret that too.<br /><br />So what happens when you are denied what you ask for? Well, that depends on how badly you want it, how crucial is it for you? By being vulnerable, you realize whether it is worth it after all.Shttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01104193753884264542noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5194832525607689004.post-48756758441903014992013-08-04T17:32:03.252+05:302013-08-04T17:32:03.252+05:30wat if u r denied wat u ask for... wen we ask as k...wat if u r denied wat u ask for... wen we ask as kids,its not a gr8 problem if we r not granted dat wish... but d stakes r higher as an adult... may be dats why, many tyms we r reluctant to ask... many tyms we regret after asking. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com